Am I wrong ?

So my boyfriend’s ex (also his baby mama) had gotten pregnant a few months after I did, her dr kept telling her some scary things like her baby was gonna have Down syndrome or that she was gonna be a still born or that she’d pass away within the first few hours of delivery, meanwhile I was told the same things….. we’ll I had my baby, me and my boyfriend went down to visit his daughter several times and each time me and his ex chilled and talked a good bit but I notice every time the baby got near her she would move, get quiet and seem stand offish. Her daughter even asked her multiple times “mommy do you wanna see the baby” and she straight up said “no I’m good”. Now that her pregnancy is over and her baby is here and healthy, would I be in the wrong for saying “No I do not want you to hold my baby now just because you got your way, I don’t feel comfortable that you wanted to resent me and mine for something no one can control but now that it’s all past you want to be nice and try to take up with my baby”
To me it just doesn’t sit right that just a few months ago she wanted absolutely nothing to do with the baby. I know we’ve all been through things that seem extremely unfair but me personally no matter how I feel or think, if I know it’s something that can’t be controlled then why act out over🤦‍♀️

Side note: other than the way she’s acted towards my baby we’ve been close and chill with each other on every interaction, even with my boyfriend and their daughter taking off leaving us by ourselves we’ve always gotten along pretty well it’s just this one thing I can’t get over because to me it feels like she did my baby dirty by blaming him for something he definitely didn’t do and something I certainly can’t control.

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Feeling alone

My husband did a voluntary deportation a month before I gave birth and will be gone for 3 yrs we talk everyday and all night when I’m having trouble to put little one down. But I feel alone because I’m doing it all by myself I never pictured me having all these first time experiencing by myself and always wanted my husband but then I feel guilty because I feel this way and he would kill for these moments with our son and I’m complaining about doing it alone and that he won’t go to sleep just the small things that I get overwhelmed sometimes. I feel like a bad mom because of it sometimes

Friends?

Hi all. Im an almost 37 year old mama. I have 3 human babies 16 year old daughter (chose to live with grandparents), almost 13 year old son (end of month) and a 1 1/2 year old daughter. Oh and let's not forget two 1 1/2 year old huskies and an almost 3 year old husky.

My life sounds chaotic. And it pretty much is. It's why I'm looking for mom friends that has an understanding to my chaos. I get so overwhelmed, sometimes I just need a friend to talk to.

I have one local bestie who has her own problems and one long distance bestie.

Im wanting to find a closer bestie to me in Colorado Springs. But will take more long distance besties as well!

If you're down to talk and chit chat about whatever we can come up with, shoot me a message.

A picture of my and my youngest for recognition.

Maternity leave

When is normal time to go off on maternity leave?
I was trying to work as long as possible before baby comes but I’m currently 31 weeks and struggling !!

looking for mama friends!!

hi! I'm Lauren, I'm 22 and I'm a first time mom to a 7 month old baby girl! I feel like sometimes it can be so hard to find friends as a new mama!! feel free to message me!

If you’re a florist PLS read

I offered to do my SIL’s wedding florals, so I went into it knowing I wasn’t getting paid, and I’ve accepted that. For context, about three weeks before the wedding I asked my MIL if she needed help with anything. I mentioned that I had already told my SIL I’d help with decor and florals. My MIL said she had no floral plans at all and asked me to take charge of ordering and making everything. I agreed and had a blood relative help me. Between the planning, calculating flower quantities, staying within MIL’s $500 budget, ordering supplies, and actually making everything, it ended up being a lot work (with no help from bridal party like they said they would) The floral supplies were $600 and we made: bridal bouquet, 4 bridesmaid bouquets, 13 boutonnieres, 8 corsages, and 1 toss bouquet. My relative and I each spent about 20 hours on it (40 hours total) + we took over her house with flowers for few days. A few days after the wedding, my MIL gave me $150 for the flowers. My relative didn’t receive anything. We genuinely weren’t expecting payment at all, but 40 hours of work, splitting $150 between us felt a little wild 🥴. Still, we both understood going into it that this was a favor and not something we were doing to make money. Then a few days later, my MIL texted me asking if I would pick up the bouquet, figure out how to preserve it, and handle that process too. She said she had everything ready for me and sent me a bunch of how-to videos. When I declined, she became cold toward me. (I also took a week off work for wedding & wedding prep so I am SALTY). My question is: was I completely used? It feels like after I did all of this, they now assume I’ll say yes to anything. I don’t have the best relationship with my in-laws to begin with. My MIL praised me so much it felt fake, while my SIL never said thank you, told me she liked the flowers, or acknowledged the work that went into them. Now another SIL is getting married in less than three months, and it sounds like they may be expecting me to do the flowers again. Would I be the AH if I charged this time? One SIL got them essentially for free, but I’m struggling with the idea of putting in that kind of time, effort, and money again. I do have a family, job & LIFE.
Would I be used again? Have I given them the idea that I’ve forgiven all the hurt they’ve caused because I did 20+ hours of free labor???
We also in UT 🇺🇸 so ofc getting married at 18 is normal 🥴
Thanks for reading the family gossip of the week 🫶 comments are appreciated 🥂

Fbi girlies that knows snapchat

Can you check these pictures i took from my mans phone and tell me if the n4k3d woman is a perdon hes talking to or «spotlight » on snap? Please help a girl out