Ever since I had my child (18m) I have been going to therapy because I have long crying spells and huge outbursts that can sometimes end in me throwing things or hitting my head on things which really sucks. I’m trying to work through it some my son does not have to see me like that. This weekend i had my first outburst in over 9 months, so i new
I would have a lot to unpack. As I was talking I had this feeling that he was listening to me. And when I got done he was stand off-ish. I tried to figure out what was wrong but he said can we just watch our TikTok’s in silence. This morning he still seem upset so I asked again he said he heard me talking to my therapist and says I was leaving stuff out about what I did “by the way I was not she has prior knowledge since this is the only therapist I’ve had.” He claims he only heard 15 seconds but imo that doesn’t make sense because how would you feel like I’m leaving stuff out if you only heard a couple seconds. I’m just really upset about it because it’s such an invasion of privacy. And I don’t want to feel guilty about maintaining my mental health especially because I struggle with SH. I think I will jusg do my therapy in the car or at my mom’s house in my old room. Do yall I’m over reacting or should I set the boundaries that he is not allowed near me at all during my appointment
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THATS A VIOLATION N HE CROSSED THE LINE

No, I don't think you're overreacting at all, it's definitely an invasion of privacy. I would have your appointments elsewhere because he will always be tempted to listen ,and you won't feel comfortable expressing yourself x