Does your husband ask for consent every time he touches you?

I think you're asking the wrong question here

Not letting me post the screenshot but here's a copy and paste of our conversation

From my perspective this morning when I said no I meant in general not just my boob's I understand there was a misinterpretation of that now but i felt this morning I had said no and you kept going anyway. I hadn't forgotten about last night but under the circumstances it had to wait that doesn't mean I wasn't still planning on it for today but I understand your doubts on that too. I feel like I've been making a lot of advances lately on my birthday I initiated and even the other night I believe I initiated too but I could be wrong

No our last time was like 3 days ago and then before that it had been about 4 days before we had sex before that so 🤷🏻‍♂️ only time you've initiated was on your birthday thats it

Okay im remembering wrong then im sorry

🤷🏻‍♂️
Really? This morning really? Im your husband mari sorry I touched you without your consent then from now on ill make sure I get your consent ever time

Your husband shouldn’t have to literally ask for permission every time he wants to touch you/initiate sex but 1000% needs to stop if you say no, without being a little bitch about it.

Its just how I interpreted it and after I already said no it felt like a violation because I had expressed that austyn was in our bed and I didn't feel it was appropriate while she was rhere
I understand she shouldn't have been but the fact is she was

Perfect then your husband violated you
Ill make sure not to touch you again without your consent then
Maybe I should get a form both of us can sign then so we can legally consent before any touching every time then make sure I dont violate you

This is unnecessary

No i violated you mari this is necessary
This isnt a small thing youre saying
If thats the case lets do exactly that
Written consent before anything else from now on

He sounds like a dick

Have it your way then
I think this is unnecessary

You dont understand the gravity of your words and what you're saying do you m***?
You're saying that your husband violated you in a sexual manner after you said no twice, that is considered sexual assault

I didn't say i was violated I said it felt like a violation
Im not accusing you of rape D****

Ok m***

Even if you feel that way, you don't understand the things you're saying m***
Thats not somrthing to just say you feel lightly
Thats not a casual thing
So yes written consent from now on, so you dont feel violated and I dont get thrown into jail for raping me wife
When unknown to me that there was a child in the bed that shouldn't have been there that is never sleeping in our bed and you expect me to know that

I said she was there

After the fact
So no I dont take this shit lightly so written consent will be necessary, you know what would be better is no sex at all probably, then theres less chance of you feeling violated, that way never know if you might not want to give consent mid way through

My husband doesn’t ask for consent, but if I say no, he respects that. That doesn’t mean he won’t try to convince me, which is a whole other issue, but he won’t proceed to touch me in a sexual way if I’ve made my choice clear.

What’s even more concerning to me is that he was trying to do this with your 4 year old in bed… is that not inappropriate to him??? I would find it super uncomfortable with any age child in my bed, but especially a 4 year old who is more than old enough to be aware of what’s going on.

Not for touching me no but if we’re about to have sex he will initiate and then ask if “I want more” to ensure I’m in the mood without ruining the moment lol

Sounds like he knows what he did was not okay and now he's blowing up at you to make it your fault because he doesn't want to be in the wrong.