Birthday parties and presents

Okay so hear me out …. Are we buying birthday presents for every child’s birthday party you’re invited to? Say there’s 30 children in a class and you spend roughly £10 on each present, that’s £300 a year.

I could never rock up to a kids bday without a present. Also, I usually spend around £20 per gift plus a card as there is nothing decent I can find for £10. My son is still at nursery (starting reception in September), and when he gets an invite from someone at nursery, I always ask him would he like to go to so and so birthday and if he says no, I kindly reply to the parent saying we are unable to attend. The kids and parents I do know, we always attend those parties. Yes, it’s expensive, but it’s kids.
I always create a registry for my kids birthdays to ensure if people ask what to get them, I can share the list and I know they will get things they like or want or need. People will buy gifts regardless so this is your opportunity to help yourself and create a list of items your kids have mentioned throughout the year.
Not sure if helpful, but I hope it is. In short - don’t rock up to a party empty handed or just with a card.