Complaining
I just want to complain for a minute. I have reached the point in my life where I know what I want sexually. I want a lot of sex, roleplay, dom/sub play. I want to be used and sore daily. My partner acts like sex is just a chore. I recently discovered I have a huge breeding kink. I feel like most men would love this, my partner though? Seems to act like my sex drive is a hindrance. He claims he wants me all the time but his actions say otherwise. He doesn’t seem to want to do any of it. Doesn’t want to dominate me or breed me. Just regular sex every once in a while is enough for him. What would you do?
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Did he start out into these things and then stop? Otherwise this seems like a lot to ask.
this is a lot to ask of someone if he’s never been into stuff like this, especially if his drive isn’t as high as yours
What the hell is a breeding kink ?
If he wasn’t into BDSM before, it might take a while for him to get into something like that but you have to remind yourself, he might never like that kind of lifestyle. You might have to find someone in that lifestyle
You seem exhausting to please sexually the guy is probably tired and overstimulated this is my honest opinion sorry!
If your sex drive and kinks have changed that's ok. But that's also ok him having it differently. You should respect that and make fees suggestions of soft things to start with and see how HE feels too. Sex is consensual. Both should enjoy what you are doing. There's probably a middle point where you can be both happy
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