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I’ve been without family and friends for about four years now. I decided to get sober and the rest of them didn’t. Now I’m doing this alone and I really wish I had a mom I can call 😭 it’s been hitting me HARD lately, anyways I just want people to know if you’re doing this without your side of the family you’re not alone🖤 and I’m here to talk 😊

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I’m here to talk, getting sober is a flex and I’m proud of you for that!

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I went through this with friends (not family) about 5 years ago. It was the most hardest thing but I wanted a life with my now husband and if I hadn’t changed my life I would never of had my 2 beautiful babies. I didn’t loose my family so that must be so tough and hard to get used to so I am sorry you are going through this. It does get easier, it takes time and tbh I’m still trying to get my head around it. But you have to keep telling yourself that you made the right decision in your life and soon you will be so proud of yourself. They are the ones loosing out and you are winning in life.

I don’t know how hard it must be without your family, especially your mum, but I hope things get better for you soon ❤️

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I just want to complain for a minute. I have reached the point in my life where I know what I want sexually. I want a lot of sex, roleplay, dom/sub play. I want to be used and sore daily. My partner acts like sex is just a chore. I recently discovered I have a huge breeding kink. I feel like most men would love this, my partner though? Seems to act like my sex drive is a hindrance. He claims he wants me all the time but his actions say otherwise. He doesn’t seem to want to do any of it. Doesn’t want to dominate me or breed me. Just regular sex every once in a while is enough for him. What would you do?

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No sex

So I have worked out me and my
Boyfriend have only had sex 6 times this year. When I saw them numbers I was crying.

For the last 2 years our sex life is non existent unless I initiate. I got tired of doing it and makes me feel unwanted.

Now sex only happens if I have a breakdown about it or it’s a special occasion, but again I feel that’s him just trying to tick a box cause he knows I’ll be upset.

He knows exactly how I feel about it and he’s promised he will try harder but it NEVER happens. It’s more frustrating because he is affectionate with kissing cuddling and rubbing like we are going to have sex but it doesn’t happen.

So I literally have anxiety now when it does happen cause I think well when will be the next one, probably not another month or he’s just doing it for my benefit.

I cry pretty much weekly about it , I’m only 32 and I am feel a lot of resentment, hatred and just ignored.

I’ve always had a high labido and I’m 30 weeks pregnant and still want sex but I just feel devastated because I know once the baby is here it’ll NEVER happen.

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Need some friends

Need some friends as I have like 0 just looking to make friends to go out with and also going out with the babies as well. In the Basingstoke area or even reading

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Still looking for my forever best friend ❤️

I’m still searching for that forever best friend who I can be there for and vent to and all the other things in between ☺️ I am 29 have got a little boy who’s 8 will be nine in December he also got autism and ADHD too we are temporarily living in Bexley till me, him and his dad can find our forever home we got our two pooches as well ☺️❤️

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Struggling with identity

I just became a stay at home mum right after graduating…I didn’t really have time to work and earn anything after studying for 7 years to get my bachelors degree and masters now I feel like I wasted my time in school. And I see my partner going to work and my friends achieving stuff and I feel like I am left behind…i was even playing basketball before I got pregnant but now with my new born I can’t do that I just watch my partner go do what he likes and I can’t do the same and I feel so lonely and heartbroken about it…idk if there is anyone who has been in the same situation before and how did you get over it…especially being in a. Foreign land where you don’t speak the same language as them plus you don’t drive yet 😭😭😭😭

Also if there are any sites I can get a remote job I would be grateful maybe I can start exercising my degrees and be financially independent

Help out please

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I need to vent

So i moved from Europe to America to be with my husband and after that i had my baby 7 months ago, all of my friends were so excited for me and gave me an impression that they are so excited to become “aunties”. First couple of months most of them talked about coming to visit me and see the baby, and obviously they still haven’t made any plans on coming. And it’s so hard to make friends in a new country, especially now as a mom… guess I just feel so hurt because I wouldn’t have done that to them. But I know I can’t expect me in other people. It’s been really lonely, and despite me saying this they keep saying they will come but I know they won’t. I also don’t have any siblings, my mom is on the older side and she can’t travel back and forth like that, and my dad passed away few years ago.

Anyways thank you to whoever took their time to read this and have my moment 🥹

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