I am so fucking horny and want to do the vilest things to and with my husband but he is so vanilla and modest that he gets shyed away at just TALKING about shit! i’m into like BDSM and like rape play and things like that and idk how to even get us started trying it out together!!! ugh
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Perhaps refer to your kink as “consensual non-consent” and it’ll land differently in your partners brain.
Seems like a huge piece of the issue is in the language that might be used feeling weird or uncomfortable for him, when there’s like other terminology you could use 🤷♀️