Am I being sensitive ?, My husband and I were having a conversation with this couple and the guy asked my husband how is marriage life and he said good and they both laughed
I confronted my husband about it and he said I need to change how I feel about it because he didn’t say anything wrong , he said it was good and people always fixate on words at least he didn’t say it was bad and he could’ve sounded fake to by using a more descriptive word
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I agree with Lyss you have to take all these things into consideration but also TRY to think of it in a man’s mind? I’ve had to realize the hard way (by myself and with help from my SO) that men think COMPLETELY different than us. If nothing else seemed “off” but the words I wouldn’t think much more of it. He didn’t say it was bad and you and your girl might have laughed if the roles were reversed not becuase you don’t love your SO but just becuase everyone knows it’s not easy sailing.
Thank you both For putting it into perspective for me
And Lyss you are 100% correct
I have always been gaslit and it’s always a right/wrong thing