Need to vent

Im 19 weeks pregnant and my bd and i broke up 2 months ago, he left me 1 moth before our wedding because “he wasn’t ready” (mind you he has 2 other children🧑🏻‍🦲) i just find out that he owns 20k on child support to his baby’s mom when he said that he was paying it. Im so overwhelmed with alot of mixed feelings. I wish he wasn’t part of my baby and i life and im really debating if i should let him be involved on my baby life

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was it a bad break up ?

Even if you decide to let him be apart of their life what makes you think he’ll stick around? He owes money in child support, and probably isn’t around him other kids enough. Plus he walked out on you while you’re pregnant and right before you two were supposed to be married. Save yourself the heartache and let that loser go.

The one thing I wish I would have done when my ex left my oldest and I, not even a month after he was born mind you, was not beg him to come back. Every day I have to live with the fact that when he goes to his dads he’s one, never truly safe because my exes grandparents are total psychos, and two he doesn’t spend time with his dad, he spends the whole time with his step mom. It’s been almost 5 years since he has come back, and every day i wish he would just leave. Not to mention he’s got $7000 in back due child support now that he still ain’t paying even though that has caused him to lose his licenses.

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