I have a stupid question…

I have spoken to many of my girlfriends about this topic. You have to discover what works best for you. We are all unique in our own ways: some women can cum from oral alone and others need penetration. It feels like a build-up and then a sudden release that you feel down there. It’s hard to describe.. sort of like electricity surging through your body but in a good way. Like your entire nervous system lights up and it’s overwhelmingly good and satisfying. The endorphins are on 1000 and you want to seek out that sensation again and again. I would recommend to spend some time playing with yourself to discover what you like and don’t like and then when you’re with a partner also explore other positions. Hopefully you can find something that works for you! I hope this helps.

I was Googling that same question until I got a vibrator lol 😅

Ok so if you aren't feeling satisfied after a session, are you speaking up to your partner and telling him how you feel? There's definitely things that he's possibly not doing enough of, and that's why you aren't getting there. Just because you have sex, doesn't mean you will automatically cum. There definitely needs to be enough mental, sometimes emotional, and physical stimulation/foreplay prior to actual sex (genitalia entering the body) happening

For everyone it’s different. For me it isn’t like this dramatic electricity goosebump feeling. It’s more of I feel extremely good and I feel my muscles tightening and then I feel spams all throughout then feel a sense of relaxation but then immediately want it to keep going. I also am a 💦 so when it’s being done really good my husband knows. I also am one of those people where I NEED foreplay/oral before penetration. If not I’m drier than a Sahara desert and won’t finish. You just have to see what works for you best and if you need toys (I do sometimes) to get the job done during that’s ok!