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Baby Daddy Drama

When I was one week postpartum my bd threatened to take my baby out the house and feed him a bottle (even though the baby was breastfed) because of this I kept him off the birth certificate. Time has passed and I still haven’t added him

I have concerns about the what he might do when I add him. Advice ?

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Don’t add him he has zero rights to him as of now monitored visits if you feel for his safety

He can apply for PR if he wants to via the court which gives him a say on things like baby moving country, school, etc. But it doesn't give them any right to take the child without your consent (otherwise you could call the police for kidnapping)

If he wants to see the baby then you could work it out between you two, through mediation orrrr let him take it to court. It depends what you and him want x

This is why im scared of my baby’s dad getting our son, he was always asking me why I don’t give him bottles and constantly talking abt he could still get formula and stuff, he’s breastfed, there’s nothing wrong with formula but I chose not to formula feed

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