Anyone feeding their toddler Kimchi?

If you’re UK based, which cleanest brand lowest salt one have you found best?

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Husband talking too another Woman

Looking for some advice and just need to get it out anonymously.
I've been with my husband for years, we have a 2.5 year old together, a mortgage, and we've been trying for a second baby. Things have been off between us for a little while and I've felt him withdrawing, but I've been trying to make it work because I love my family.
Something felt wrong so I looked at his phone and found messages between him and a girl he went to college with. She's recently gone through a divorce. He's texting her constantly, including checking in on her at 6:30 in the morning. He's asking about her dating life, giving her compliments, and he even invited to buy her a drink and to soft play with the kids.
I confronted him and he says he knows how it looks but that she's just a friend.
I haven't told anyone in my life because I'm scared and don't want to worry people around me.
Has anyone been through something similar? How did you handle it? Did you believe them when they said it was just a friend? I just need to hear from people who understand.

Nurseries

My little one’s nursery still charges us if we have pre booked holidays ? Is this normal? Just doesn’t make sense to me that we are paying for a service when he won’t be there, we were told that the fees secure his place at the nursery ?

Food shop weekly cost

How much are people spending on food shopping a week? We spend between £80-100 a week, this is for 2 adults and 2 kids, a dog and a cat. Do our shopping in Tesco and most weeks we will end up in a shopping for washing detergent, dishwasher tablets, animal food etc as we like to physically look at what is the best deals that week in a shop.

I just hear people doing these videos about how they can spend £30 for 4/5 meals and I have no idea how they do this!!

How are we 'disciplining' an 18 month old or is it not possible?

I'm feeling like I have no clue how to parent. Mu natural instinct is to say "no don't do that, come here and do xxx" - my son totally understands but proceeds to test our limits. I try to stay calm but sometimes I have an involuntary harsh toned "don't do that" and I feel terrible. He understands "no" but doesn't listen to me. He's more likely to listen to his dad's instructions. I try to teach packing away - but its a hit or miss. I put so much pressure on myself to be a good mom - but do I try and instill obedience now and ensure consequences when he does what he knows he should not or do I just leave him be and bite on shoes, eat soil, put stones in his mouth, unpack all the cupboards and constantly throw his plate and cup on the floor? I know they love a reaction and are testing cause and effect but it's a lot especially when juggling workplace stress and life admin. I'm not complaining - I adore this lil smarty pants so much but I'm feeling clueless rn. Is it just the stage they're at now or do I try and push for good behavior?

Do any of you ladies practice manual evacuation?

I find it especially helpful. Its great for super-formed poops that just need rotated or those annoying pebbles that never come out no matter how much you push. For those that don't know, its done by inserting a finger or thumb in the vagina and coaxing/pushing poop out since the vagina and anus share a tissue wall.

Teething

My 3 and a half month old already seems to be showing signs of teething. He’s dribbling quite a bit, he appears to have two little white marks either side of his gums and the main thing is he’s constantly got his hands in his mouth but the issue is he’s making himself gag a lot and the skin on his hands is going a bit dry. Can anyone recommend anything I could give him to bite down on rather than his hands?