Arguments

My partner and I have been together 2 years and have a 3 month old together. We’ve always had petty arguments nothing serious but ever since having our baby it seems as though we are arguing more often. I don’t know if it’s because we are both young or it’s the change in our lives. Is this normal ? Has anyone experienced this ? And does it ever go away or maybe it’s a sign that we aren’t compatible?

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Yes it’s normal you just have to learn to compromise both you and your partner so splitting tasks when it comes to the baby so one time you change the babies nappy and one time him and so on

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