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Not attending my friends divorce party, as a married woman.

I love my friend .. but I also love my marriage and don’t want to spend a night screaming how men are trash and how we don’t need them.

Also my friend is very fiery and problematic I believe was the cause of the break up.

I’m also Christian and don’t want any anti marriage energy around me.

Thoughts? Am I bad for not going. I’m always there as a shoulder to cry on but I do not wish to celebrate the divorce.

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I see both sides. I have an amazing husband. He’s a 10/10 in my eyes. But I’m also a realist and a lot of men are trash POS’. I would still go and not trash talk my OWN husband. Can still trash the others lol. My best friend of 25 years threw something similar and it was 100% validated. Two things can be true at once. I’m also Catholic.

If you blame her for the divorce and are not going to celebrate her, don’t go.

You can agree to disagree. 🤷‍♀️
Show up for support but keep comments to yourself. It’s her moment.

Idk I think it’s not about you and it’s about supporting your friends journey.

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