Work anxiety

So i got this little part time job like 4 days a week right in my town and im honestly nervous when i leave the house my husbands gonna invite girls over and cheat with my kids in the house.

What do you think i should do?
I wanna work but im scared like crippling anxiety. Hes never cheated before but ive also never worked before weve only been together 2 years and married 1 year

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Ice-cream for toddler

I was at the playground today and another mum was giving out ice-creams to the kids (Magnum style with chocolate and caramel). She asked if my son would like one and I explained that he's not really had things like that yet, but thanked her anyway. She seemed shocked and asked how old he is, when I said 20 months she was like "awww that's crazy"

It was really kind of her to offer him the ice-cream but it made me feel like she saw me as a cruel and mean mum when I didn't take it. My son does have things like muffins that I make, digestive biscuits, fruit yoghurts etc but I'm holding off on giving him really sugary treats for as long as possible as he doesn't know the difference yet.

What do you think?

What have I done?

I have a 3 weeks old and I'm starting to really freak out. I love him and will do anything I need to make sure he's happy healthy and safe but I'm terrified I've made a mistake! I don't know how to be a mum. I dont like other peoples children. I dont want to loose my identity and I'm so scared of messing up because again I do love him. I'm not enjoying this and starting to feel like I've trapped myself in a prison. I just want to be happy and I want to enjoy my baby but I feel so scared and lost. Please tell me this is normal and it will pass?

Struggles with Partner

Hey, just looking for a bit of advice really as I don’t have many friends to talk to.

My partner and I have a 15 month old and 3 months pregnant with our second he opened a business around the time our son was born that requires a lot of his time and attention.

To cut a long story short, he rarely has our son alone, he only really spends time with him at night before he goes to bed/some time on the weekend, but I am expected to be fully responsible during those times. There are some weeks that he hasn’t even changed our son’s nappy once. If I ever have an appointment/social event I have to arrange childcare or plan around our son’s nursery hours.

He doesn’t do much in the house at all, but I’m fine with that as I don’t have set working hours due to helping with the business so I spend a lot of time at home.

The issue I have is that I am expected to care for the home, care for our son (who sleeps absolutely terribly), and help with the business daily. Whilst I have allowed him to focus solely on the business.

It feels like I am being stretched to do more, and he can be very hurtful with the way that he speaks to me. Sometimes I think I’d be better off doing it alone as honestly it feels that way sometimes now.

Just looking for some advice really or anyone who has been through something similar? 😞

Potty Training a 1 Year Old

Should I start potty training my 1 year old? I want her out of nappies asap really.

Should I explore this idea? 🤔

I’m a stay at home mum to a nearly 4 year old and I’ve noticed she learns best through hands on activities and she eats more and loves when we cook together. It’s inspired an idea I’d love honest feedback on.

✨Idea - A weekly country themed box for ages 3–5, with child friendly healthy recipes the whole family can eat, plus activities, crafts and learning through play. The aim is to take some of the mental load out of meal planning while creating fun family bonding moments whilsg introducing children to different cultures.

Would this be something that would interest you as a parent?

What do people do during the day or what kind of things do you do in your routine?

My baby is 8 weeks old...just looking for ideas