Am I thinking wrong

I'm 10 weeks pregnant...recently visited to my doc for checkups....his inspection itself aroused me🤪. I don't think he did anything wrong ....but his gentle touches....seems made me wet ....and i can't forget the touches....is this normal? I am still with my partner and he loves me. I love him too. But this checkup is something is not going off my mind. Don't know if I sud tell this to my partner. Am I not thinking straight. Anyone else ever felt something similar?

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Probably no need to tell him. And probably shouldnt dwell on it.

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Hormones are going crazy. Yes I would tell your partner about this. They can help you. Idk if this is your first pregnancy or not but keep that communication open with your partner and maybe have them go with you next appointment. That way if it happens again you have your partner and you can talk about it and do something about it when you get home. If the doctor is just doing his job it can still help to have your partner by your side

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Agreed with K. No need to tell partner itd likely just hurt his feelings for no reason and forget about it.

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But how to help myself from his thoughts 🫣

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Haha girl you’re too funny 😂 yes it’s normal and no do not tell your partner, like there’s just things you should keep to yourself in a relationship 😂 it’s like randomly seeing a hot guy on the street and telling your partner that’s just not needed, it just upsets people for no reason lol pregnancy hormones make you think crazy things, especially first trimester

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Maybe have your partner dress up like a doctor and give you an exam? 😂

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Not my first ...and I have never been with any other guy apart from my partner.....I have never been touched there by any other man....not that I crave for....but this doc ...he was doing all his job only...still....his touches were tingling 🤪

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Nice idea Koreena 🫣

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You should get a new dr. Maybe a female. As a former healthcare worker, a couple of patients reacted similarly to me working on them, except men aren't able to hide it as easily. I felt violated and was able to transfer care to another provider. IMO to respect your dr., you should switch or control your thoughts/feelings at the very least.

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Not expecting ior asking more .....all just in my own thoughts....m sorry....feeling guilty now of reading comments.....I know I won't betray my partner for sure.....was just curious to ask if this was normal ....or I am being too aroused to be ashamed of myself

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Am I thinking wrong

I'm 10 weeks pregnant...recently visited to my doc for checkups....his inspection itself aroused me🤪. I don't think he did anything wrong ....but his gentle touches....seems made me wet ....and i can't forget the touches....is this normal? I am still with my partner and he loves me. I love him too. But this checkup is something is not going off my mind. Don't know if I sud tell this to my partner. Am I not thinking straight. Anyone else ever felt something similar?

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