Looking for my text/messenger Bestie!

I'm 44 yrs old, mom of 4, stay at home mom for past 3 years solid, super young at heart, going through relationship problems, 4 years sober from alcohol, have bipolar depression and anxiety coupled with PTSD - crazy but so fun & awesome 😎

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Nursery

I’m sorry if I sound stupid but can someone please explain in dumb terms how nursery’s work applying and payment wise I’m self employed I made less than 10k last tax year this year will be about 15k ( what year does it go by when they mention earning x amount you are eligible for x)
How do I apply for funding. What funding am I entitled to do you do this before or after finding a nursery

I’m wanting to do maybe 3/4 days a week
I’m also on universal credit but I don’t get much from them maybe (200-400 a month) as I earn enough from self employment some months
I need my daughter to start as I know I can be earning more with the self employment but I don’t have time currently

Many thanks !!!

HSV 1

My friend had something weird going on down there that they've now determined is due to an ingrown hair, but she got tested for all sti's and it turns out she has HSV 1. She's pretty sure her ex, who gets cold sores gave it to her but who knows how long she's had it as she's asymptomatic.

My husband cheated

While packing up my house (because my husband kicked me and my baby out) I found he hid condoms.
I texted him confronted and of course he pretended he didn’t know what it was.
I’m in shock I was already struggling with the idea that he just doesn’t love me 3 weeks after having his baby. But now to find out he’s been cheating or at least had the intention to?
I’m so hurt, confused, conflicted.
I can’t believe him.

Heyy! New here!

Hey I am Zhee! I am look to make some new friends to ft with or even have a mom GroupChat! I do play online games so I’m down for that! But making some new friends is definitely what I need right now lol.

Is it normal

In five years my bf has never let me touch his phone only 3 times and I had to wrestle it out of him ….should I just leave at this point I’m scared it’s something more than cheating like something scary

Has your husband ever mentioned divorce?

During arguments he will always tell me that we've got until X amount of time. Let's say Christmas, until he files for a divorce. He's even looked at divorce lawyers before now during an argument. 9 years later and we are still married, he's not mentioned it for about a year now because I gave him an ultimatum but I still think about it.

The words he said and how many times he's done it. I've lost count tbh. I've never done it, for context and my reply is always "okay" because he's done it that many times I know now he won't follow through with it.

Still it hurts, the mention of it.