I love being a mother and I have such material instincts for any child, not just my own but lately whenever we’re out at public events or with other children in public places why do I find myself getting so annoyed with older children who aren’t being watched by their parents.
My daughter is 3 and I’m currently pregnant with my second baby so I’m not as active as I can be but my daughter loves play grounds/ bouncy castles and I understand these things are for every child of age not just toddlers but when there’s specially a play area intended for younger children and older children are still using it and playing slightly rough as they do why aren’t they being told?
I’ve snapped a few times at some children just because they are being too rough or dangerous. I don’t want to have to do this as it’s not my job, however, I’m not having my daughter get knocked over and injured.
I wish there was more separation between older children and younger children or parents would actually step in and ask their child to be more careful about their surroundings.
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It’s interesting I’ve not really noticed it that much but maybe my tolerance for older children is higher as I teach teenagers. I often say to my son that he needs to go on something else if older are on it and are being a bit energetic. If they’ve come to a bit where my son is I might tell them to be gentle but most of the time I’ve found kids tend to be gentle and kind to younger children.