Biomom refuses to share report card
It’s so frustrating and she is so lame for it. SD has been out of school since the 10th officially, report cards have been available online since then. My husband has been asking her since then to either provide the login credentials or send him a copy of the report card. (She lives in a different state and has removed him from school records due to the excessive unexcused absences—whenever SD was absent, he’d receive a call from the school and he would reach out to bio to ask why she was missing the day. She didn’t like being questioned so she took him off everything)
The other day, he asked yet again, hey where is the report card. SD has been with us since school ended, and we would like to see how the year ended so we can celebrate or discipline appropriately. Instead, her responses have been “I’ll get it to you when I get a chance,” “I haven’t been home in a few days,” (which was a blatant lie and my personal favorite “since you want to press me on this topic, where’s my $400 for the month?!”
My husband responded with, “neither myself nor our child knows how she ended the year. We both deserve to know what she did/didn’t do well on. It doesn’t take 2 weeks to gather this information that is online. And she has been with me primarily this month, the money you are requesting has already been spent on her for summer clothes.”
I think he handled it lovely but I think she’s a corny bitch for keeping him out of the loop bc she doesn’t want to see that their daughter is primarily failing under her care and has missed more days than we know to be true. She’s a bird IMO would you agree?
Husband lost interest in sex?
Anyone else dealing with this? Does it get better after pregnancy? It’s hard for me to not be in my head about it. We are expecting our first child. We used to have an amazing sex life, but as soon as I got pregnant, my partner lost interest. We’ve only had awkward sex or failed sex this whole time. Yesterday, we got married and I thought the excitement of that might lead to things happening, but he still is not interested. We tried and he wasn’t able to. Then he initiated again and still wasn’t able to. I tried not to show I was upset but it lead me to cry, and now I’m afraid that made it even worse. This is effecting my self esteem really badly. I feel unattractive and like he doesn’t see me the way he used to anymore.
Actually I have felt lonely in general. He’s
busy with work a lot. And he said he would make time for our elopement to feel special, but he ended up working all evening after we eloped and read each other vows. Then the next day, it was just like a regular Tuesday, not like we had just gotten married. I wanted to wait to get married until things felt more romantic, but he wanted the baby to have his last name and I wanted the baby to have both our last names if we weren’t married (but I agreed we could change our son’s name once we married).
Would anyone else be upset/sad about not even having sex after getting married? I’m honestly sad about it, and it makes me feel shame for feeling this way
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