Partner not come home on our anniversary what should I do ?

It was mine and my partners 3 year anniversary yesterday and he’s not returned home after work , he was only meant to be doing two small jobs I last spoke to him at 2pm and he said he’d be back soon . I missed his call at 7pm
And I’ve heard nothing since and his phone is off .

I’m currently awake as I can’t sleep with worry , I’m wondering if I should contact the friend he was working with on social media ( I’ve only met him briefly a few times ) or would this look weird and crazy ?

I don’t know where his last job was so un sure if I should call hospitals or police stations ?

He has never done his before and especially to not come home on our anniversary?

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I’d absolutely be doing everything to try and find him including that friend and police stations

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I’ve just tried calling his phone and it’s now ringing but no answer which has made me even more confused 😭

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Yeah, you need to call that friend, his mother, all his other friends, hospitals, police etc...

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Contact friend and police. Do you have share my location on your phones? If so check that.
Hope everything is ok x

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Maybe try the company he works for hun. See if they know especially if he was given two jobs they will know this last location xxx

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I hope everyone and everything is ok. Any update? X

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I pray he is safe

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Is he OK

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No response from the friend who I messaged , he’s not back

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Wow that's not right

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I'm sorry you are going through this- have you tried contacting police or hospitals? Was he working outdoors?

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I would be CALLING that friend.

Who else have you tried? I would be calling everyone in my contacts list that also knows him....

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Id call the police if he isn't back. & Like said. Calling that friend also. !. Ring off people's phones. Message after message

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Goodness that is scary!
Ive had that once before with my partner. Turns out he went drinking with new work mates and forgot about the time and his phone died and he couldn't travel home at that time. Passed out on a sofa, woke midday on a Saturday and realised he isn't home.

I was fuming! But at least he was safe. At the time, we were new in Lomdon so I knew nothing and no one!


I truly hope all is ok and that its something as simple as what my partner did!

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Partner not come home on our anniversary what should I do ?

It was mine and my partners 3 year anniversary yesterday and he’s not returned home after work , he was only meant to be doing two small jobs I last spoke to him at 2pm and he said he’d be back soon . I missed his call at 7pm
And I’ve heard nothing since and his phone is off .

I’m currently awake as I can’t sleep with worry , I’m wondering if I should contact the friend he was working with on social media ( I’ve only met him briefly a few times ) or would this look weird and crazy ?

I don’t know where his last job was so un sure if I should call hospitals or police stations ?

He has never done his before and especially to not come home on our anniversary?

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I’m close to breaking point, either to cry or scream. I don’t take offence to how my son is, he’s always been off coming back from his dad and he’s been going over every Tuesday since 9 month old so I guess I’m use to it, I just don’t know what to do

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