Frustrated

Yall im going to be so real. I am getting frustrated lol so many of yall “want friends” but then barely respond or just ghost. I understand life is busy. I’m in the newborn trenches I am exhausted. But I don’t want a texting buddy and I definitely don’t want to talk to someone who just says “yeah” when I’m trying to get to know them and build a friendship lol rant over

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same... im not in the trences so to say i have a 1 year old and im due in september. i sahm and im on my phone all day! message me...

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Most people are selfish. See their behaviour as a sign that they aren't meant for you. Trust the process. You got this 🙂

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Sameee ughh! Feel free to message me girls❤️❤️

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I agree 100% I downloaded this app to make friends and to help through the newborn trenches and for some other reason, I feel like it’s just making it worse

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Very true 💯 I thought I was having a good convo with someone and then boom *blocked* I’m like wowwww

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Yup, totally get it. People like the idea of making friends, but don't actually want to put in the work.

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same! especially cause i went from alway being out the house at school or work to being a sahm, and it’s lonely as fuck. i was hoping to make friends we we could hand out and our kids could play, but no one actually wants to tho they say they do.

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I get that I’ve been trying to find new friends and some take days to respond or just ghost me which makes me mad

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Girl same, everybody so dry but say they want a friend it’s so draining

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100% agree…. Sailin in same boat.

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I understand where you’re coming from but you have to remember how the newborn trenches are. If they are breast-feeding mother while the baby is latching, they are probably dozing off and drained. While also trying to get stuff around the house done. Majority of us do want to make friends and get out the house, but postpartum depression is a factor in that as well, so some of them might not be selfish but really trying to get through and not bring anyone else in to their depression.

If anyone is in the Atlanta area, I’m open to doing meet ups. And for those of you that aren’t I’m open to be a text buddy 🐻⚡️.

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Frustrated

Yall im going to be so real. I am getting frustrated lol so many of yall “want friends” but then barely respond or just ghost. I understand life is busy. I’m in the newborn trenches I am exhausted. But I don’t want a texting buddy and I definitely don’t want to talk to someone who just says “yeah” when I’m trying to get to know them and build a friendship lol rant over

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