Anyone still on here?

Hey :) My name is Sophia, I just moved back to Visalia in January and I’m having my baby next Friday (hopefully before that). I’ve stayed home my entire pregnancy so I haven’t had work to help make friends out here. I’m looking for other moms and people in the same stage of life as me to make friends with.

As soon as I get cleared, I’m going straight back to Pilates and Lagree. I love going out for coffee or just relaxing at home. I love bravo and Netflix reality tv shows. I love trying new things. Also my boyfriend and I love hanging out with other couples so big plus if we could all hangout together:)

in our community

Back to work

I know this is really judgemental,. But I love working, I really want to go back but at the same time, I cannot even fathom leaving my baby.
The thing that I am judgemental on, is that I do not want to me one of them mums who just live on benefits for the rest of their lives, live in a council place and solely rely on council to help me out, have many children with different daddies because I have already left my baby daddy, I have already had so many emails asking when I am returning and I just don't know what to do. I break down into tears everytime I think about it because I know how judgemental I am being with it. I know that some mothers cannot help that and really do need it, but i also know mums who use benefits as a way to do fuck all. I don't even know what to say anymore...
I guess thanks for hearing me rant 😭😅

My baby daddy hates this app

There’s always some drama in this group and it pops up on my phone and my boyfriend/baby Dad always checks it out and just gets so angry that we be bashing all of these deadbeat ass mf’s .

Buddy if the SHOE FITS , 😭😭🤣🤣 half of the time we don’t even talking shit we’re just speaking facts 😆 don’t do dumb and disrespectful and dishonest shit if u don’t want no one to know about it fools 🙌🏻

Thoughts

I think I’m more than happy with my one daughter.

But every now and then I entertain the thought of another child because I miss pregnancy/newborn stage but then remember how difficult toddlers are. How comfortable we are and less money means less freedom. I worry I’ll regret not having anymore! It’s so hard.

Friends!

Making friends as an adult is so hard let alone being a mom! Going on apps to find friends or ven in person but people have gotten so weird since covid. No one genuinely wants to be your friend, they are jealous, and hateful people. They always want you to text them first. people say they want to be or want friends but when you talk to them they ghost you, they just want followers online, or they already have friends! Like hello some people want genuine connections not just a hey, and bye situation!

Had my first night out 5 months PP

I need mom friends so we can do moms after dark 😭

Guilty

I feel horrible for saying this but does anyone else get so overwhelmed and hate being a mom sometimes even tho it’s everything you’ve always wanted
I have a 3month old and I love him to death but lately it has been so so overwhelming from the sleep deprivation to the head aches and loneliness that I sometimes just want to give up
Does anyone else feel like this? Or am I just a bad mom please be honest