yesterday my sister n law asked me randomly if the pregnancy tests are accurate (newly weds and wanting kids), I told her yes, and my husband said that I should have asked her if she was pregnant & that she was hinting me

cauae she wants someone to talk to, but I dont like to pry too much in her life, since were not very close and i didnt want to make her uncomfortable. should I have asked her?

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Guys I really need some advice. Me and my partner have been together for just over a year and for half that time he’s been jobless. At the start it was easy to have empathy for him as he got let go because the buisness he was working for had been bankrupt and shut down… but it’s been 6 months now and he still doesn’t have a job and has only been to like 3 interviews. I thought his motivation would change when I had our baby 3 months ago but it hasn’t.
I’m starting to build up a lot of resentment towards him because I feel like he’s not putting in enough effort. We had to move in with my parents because we can’t afford to buy a house or even rent. I only have a couple thousand in my savings and he has basically nothing.

It’s not the fact that he doesn’t have a job that is annoying me it’s the lack of ambition and motivation that’s really making me resent him.
He’s also let himself go. He’s put on weight, he doesn’t follow basic hygiene unless I constantly remind him and he doesn’t help me with the baby unless I ask. He also plays video games 24/7.
I don’t know how to explain to him how important it is to find some motivation and work toward a goal.
I’ve tried being nice and gentle about it, I’ve tried being harsh and blunt, I’ve tried to apply for jobs for him and make calls for him to find him a job and i’ve tried to have open conversations about our goals in life and for our baby but nothing seems to work.

I’m not attracted to him anymore which breaks my heart because I love him so much but whenever he tried to initiate sex my body closes up and I’m not interested at all. I’m also so snappy toward him all the time because of all the build up resentment I have it’s hard not to snap at him for little things.
I’m at a loss here and I have no idea what to do moving forward.
If anyone has been through something similar or has any advice please please please comment!!!

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yesterday my sister n law asked me randomly if the pregnancy tests are accurate (newly weds and wanting kids), I told her yes, and my husband said that I should have asked her if she was pregnant & that she was hinting me

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