Am I being sensitive or would this also upset you?

That was rude!! Even if they are truly just okay he should have been kinder and tried to hype you up, that’s what I’d expect from my spouse.

If anyone is curious, I process small aluminum pieces from recycling and weave them together in my own pattern with ribbon to create the bracelet, they have clasps and charms attached as well. They are the smallest and most affordable option in my current collection.

Hmph. I mean, I’d still be offended but yes, I’m sensitive and self aware.

Maybe is he trying to set an expectation instead of just being blindly supportive? Is he that type instead? Like, Has he ever gotten like super hyped for you showing him something?

Or is this the normal reaction to your art/collection pieces?

In the past I've gotten scholarships from my art, been professionally educated in what I do, had my work in 2 exhibits, had an almost steady income with just commissions, and then I had our children and I had to take a break. I'm trying new things and succeeding in my creative methods but if my own husband doesn't see the value in it then it does put a bad taste in my mouth and feels discouraging when I'm trying to get back at it.

You asked him his opinion and he was honest. I don't think there was anything rude or disrespectful in that answer, he wasn't like "Ew no of course not!"

As an artist myself, I don't ask for someone's opinion if I NEED them to be blindly supportive. We improve through honest feedback. If you need him to lie so as to not hurt your feelings, I think you should be self aware enough not to ask the question at all.

Also, remember that women communicate differently than men. A lot of our dialogue is about showing support and loyalty, rather than transmitting straightforward information. It helps my marriage, and it may help you, not to expect Girl Talk from the men in your life.