You are NOT the father!
When I found out I was pregnant, I told the person I was certain about him being the father; he was not going to be involved he said, and went ghost. Blocked me and all. I filed CP.
DNA test came back , not the father. Omg. I’m so embarrassed. HONESTLY SHOCKED.
So now… I know who my child’s bio father is. There was one other person I was with during the window. I told him. He took it well.
I spent months holding on to pain bitterness and anxiety about that person I thought was my baby’s dad.
Has anyone else experienced anything dramatic like this?
Even though it feels like a weight is lifted, I feel ashamed and embarrassed at the same time. I’ve never gotten around , and this feels like a suburban Maury Povich episode.
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If it makes you feel better my friend is an adoptee and her bio mom found her recently at age 37…after a lot of digging her mom finally told her who her father was but she wasn’t in touch with him and super triggered by the history..but my friend reached out to him - he didn’t respond at first..so she reached out to many people in his family…after a lot of drama and her taking an ancestry dna test, she found out the guys friend was actually her father and had to break the news to her bio mom…where the story was she had drunkenly hooked up with 2 guys at a party that night but thought only one had finished, so for 37 yrs she thought it was guy 1….turns out no..😅
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