Moved country, left a DV relationship at the end of my pregnancy. No family around me, no friends. Just me and my baby.
It’s so lonely, I don’t know how we’re meant to make friends.
I go baby groups, play cafes. Everyday 24 hours a day it’s just me and my girl. I try engage with others but it’s always just a smile and moved on,
I don’t want to date. I’d have no time to date 😂no baby sitters. Can’t even take a sh*t without her hanging off of me🥲
I try make a laugh out of it but genuinely it’s so draining , and I don’t mean being a mum is draining, I mean having no one, no adult convos. No one to meet up with the kids.
I feel like I’m so lost, before my daughter I was so full of life , friends family around me. Met her dad and he ruined me completely I guess I should have seen the red flags him being 10 years older then me… but at the time love bombing was real and I could 100% fix him, I could not, I got broken in the process. Don’t even know why I’m writing this, to vent maybe. To see if anyone feels the same, to start a bond with someone?
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I’m in similar situation to you, 26, left a dev relationship about a year ago, no friends. Please DM me, let’s chat ♥️

I’m the same situation, partner was caught cheating on me after 10 years and only after moving to Liverpool with our kids and have no one or any family either so text me if you need anyone ❤️xx