Abandoned during pregnancy

I am currently 13 weeks pregnant and i was with the father for two years we definitely always had our fair share of ups and downs but now that im pregnant it's completely different in the beginning he was present and there but now he moved out into his on house and is saying hes single and actively talking to other females and probably having sex I dont know i just cant even believe it how did he go from i love you i only want you for two years no matter the argument he never did this to me but now that im pregnant he's actively moving on and he stated post partum is hard youll need me so its making me feel like now that im pregnant he feels like he can treat me any type of way and ill have to come back to him after all of this i cant even say i love him but im hurt im really hirt and i dont understand all i want to do all day is call and talk to him and talks to me soooo bad but two days and last week he was nice and sweet and like its only when its convenient for him but me wanting to see the best in him i allowed it to happen its hard for me because he is going out talking to other people and i just dont feel like i can currently do the same because im pregnant and it sucks i dont know how to move forward im not happy im so angry

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Heyy! My name is Marie, I’m 24 and a ftm to an 8 month old baby boy. I struggle making friends and keeping them. Keeping them is my hardest issue because I’ll talk to you for a few days but then life gets busy and I completely forget to respond until I suddenly remember 🥲. I am inconsistent at times, but I am a good friend and a great listener. So… if you don’t mind me not texting everyday, let’s be friends🫶🏽
*pic of me and my boy when we went on vacation for his 7 months🥰*

Consistency/loneliness

You know I’ve always typically been a lonely person since I was a child but being pregnant and in your 30s is the loneliest thing I can’t find consistency in my life at all, and I feel like I can’t keep a consistent friend to save my life. And maybe it’s because of all the shit that I’ve gone through and I don’t tolerate a lot of things, but man, I am feeling guilty for being pregnant and having a child when I feel the loneliest I’ve ever felt in my life. Am I the only one?

Friendship advice.

I want to write a post about my closest friend who’s got the hump due to having a registry whilst I’m on holiday told me 2 months before the date when I had booked my holiday 2 months before her even considering or mentioning having a registry told me I should be there for her because she’s been there for me and I should either cancel or change my dates baring in mind I have 2 year old and a 3 month old and unable to change dates. For my wedding she left me on the day of my wedding at the hotel to meet a man she was dating then ( who she isn’t marrying) then attended the evening however I had paid for the hotel and was planning for her to get ready with me and help me with my photos etc she also made an issue on my hen because she was over 1 hour late and expected me and everyone else to wait for her and not go through to duty free didn’t help me during my wedding at all but I just accept her for who she is as I know she’s selfish however I’m very pissed off for her to throw in my face that I should give what she gave me. Am I a horrible friend?

I’m bored..wanna chat shit?

I’ve had a couple glasses of wine…everyone’s gone bed and I’m bored! Just need to talk, to someone? Anyone?!

Comparison

I’m not sure if anyone feels the same but I feel since having my baby I’m constantly comparing my life to others around me. I wasn’t like this pre-baby but it feels like everyone’s buying nice things, going on fancy holidays with their babies and having a great time whilst I feel quite stuck at home. Maybe it’s the constant social media posts I see, but it just feels like everyone’s having a better time than me.

I know social media is just what people want to show you, but since having my baby I just feel I’m constantly comparing.

Abandoned during pregnancy

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Consistency/loneliness

Friendship advice.

I’m bored..wanna chat shit?

Comparison

Abandoned during pregnancy