Maybe a rant? 😅

This is maybe a rant cause I’m not really upset but I’m just curious about how other moms are having luck making friends through this app. Every person I meet either doesn’t answer or is extremely dry. I find that I will ask someone a question about themselves and they will answer my question but not ask anything about me. Ive meet moms in person that either ghosted me when they didn’t need me anymore or simply only talk about themselves without any interest in actually getting to know me. I understand being a mom can be lonely sometimes and it feels good to have other people you can talk to but I’m tired of being the one listening to everyone else and no one putting any effort into anything about me. Ugh writing this makes me feel so selfish but at the same time I feel like i deserve a friend that’s willing to also ask how my day is and actually wants to get to know me not just use me as another chat bot. I hope I’m not the only one that feels this way.

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Let’s be friends

Ladies stop being so shy let’s be friends

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friends?

hey! this is me shooting my shot at making some new friends as the last couple months have been especially hard on me and I’d love to meet some new people to surround myself with.
I’m 21, turning 22 later this year in october. i have a 1.5 year old son named Hunter and i’ve also been married for almost a year now. we’re from alberta canada but I’d love to meet people from absolutely anywhere, near or far! i like playing video games, specifically apex, fortnite, minecraft, etc. i enjoy crafts like diamond paintings, paint by numbers, crocheting etc. I’m trying to enjoy the outdoors as much as i can as I’d like to go camping and fishing this year and maybe even a hike or two. i work full time but am currently on a 3 week leave from work. i love to text when i can and facetiming is also a plus!
if you think we’d get a long and youd like. new friend please feel free to leave a comment or send me a message💕
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Consistency/loneliness

You know I’ve always typically been a lonely person since I was a child but being pregnant and in your 30s is the loneliest thing I can’t find consistency in my life at all, and I feel like I can’t keep a consistent friend to save my life. And maybe it’s because of all the shit that I’ve gone through and I don’t tolerate a lot of things, but man, I am feeling guilty for being pregnant and having a child when I feel the loneliest I’ve ever felt in my life. Am I the only one?

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Need more friends ❣️

Whether you’re from Indiana or not. Add me 😌 bored and need more people to talk to.

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Abandoned during pregnancy

I am currently 13 weeks pregnant and i was with the father for two years we definitely always had our fair share of ups and downs but now that im pregnant it's completely different in the beginning he was present and there but now he moved out into his on house and is saying hes single and actively talking to other females and probably having sex I dont know i just cant even believe it how did he go from i love you i only want you for two years no matter the argument he never did this to me but now that im pregnant he's actively moving on and he stated post partum is hard youll need me so its making me feel like now that im pregnant he feels like he can treat me any type of way and ill have to come back to him after all of this i cant even say i love him but im hurt im really hirt and i dont understand all i want to do all day is call and talk to him and talks to me soooo bad but two days and last week he was nice and sweet and like its only when its convenient for him but me wanting to see the best in him i allowed it to happen its hard for me because he is going out talking to other people and i just dont feel like i can currently do the same because im pregnant and it sucks i dont know how to move forward im not happy im so angry

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Stop

Stop posting that you're looking for a best friend when you have people messaging you and you don't answer them

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