Sad while pregnant

Am I the problem man everytime I want to express how I feel he thinks I want to argue , he doesn’t want to be around the family God blessed him with frfr everytime his so call homies call his phone he pick up for them and Text them back faster then he replies to me and stuff and he loves to smoke weed 24/8 since we moved back to his hometown and we got into a argument and I wasn’t even trying to argue with him 🥺😞😭💔

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I’m sorry . I deal with this too . I stopped sharing my feelings with him. My bf changed when he saw our daughter.

I’m sorry you have to go through this while pregnant with his child I would definitely just focus on your health and your baby health and say f him because the stress isn’t good or safe I know it hurts but he’ll hurt more when he see you not even paying him no mind maybe co parent if you guys are together but you and your baby don’t need this type of unfit support I wish you the best in your pregnancy 🫂🫂

Lol he knew where it was going to go by how you delivered your message. Ive learned with this last pregnancy is that my SO actually is very sensitive and really does want to be around me its just im TOOOOO NEEDY right now and we argue because I think im the queen and Its about me when hes going through stuff too. If you would have answered the phone do you think it would have gotten worse? My SO usually calls me because he knows my text will come off harsh..

it’s really sad but you’re not only one going through this. I’m having the trouble with my husband. I stopped sharing my feelings. Every time I want to talk to him, he’s saying I’m the problem and want to argue with him, nagging all the time. It hurts me a lot 😞🥲

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