Sugar daddy
This may be a bit much, but I don't have any shame about it. Yes, I had a sugar daddy before I met hubby. I didn't have much of a sex drive, so I figured if I'm gonna do it at least get something out of it. Wasn't getting an orgasm...it was almost like an acting gig tbh. I was a single mom and the extra money helped. I didn't see him often just when I needed to, or he wanted. Hubby knew about it.. he told me that life was over once we got together. Okay, cool. Fast forward, we're married and I'm pregnant. We need money badly bc we're behind on some bills...hubby acts like he's stressed about it yet he wants to have 3 somes and shit. Idgaf about 3 somes bc again, I'm not a very sexual person. To me unless this person can help us with the bills, it's pointless. Why focus on having this fun when we are so behind on bills? I'd rather go see SD cause at least I can get the money to catch us up. But of course he doesn't want me to do that. I know some people may not agree with what I'm saying, and I understand. I guess I'm just venting because I feel like hubby is focused on the wrong thing And I guess I'm still stuck in that frame of mind where if a person can't help you beyond the sex then what's the point of dealing with them? He likes to call me a whore because of my past with SD, but honestly I don't care. Like I said I have no shame about it because at least I was getting something out of the deal that was actually helping me instead of just treating sex as a sport like he was when we met. I know this post is a bit much. I'm just venting don't mind me.
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You’re a whore but he’s the one suggesting three some while you’re pregnant ????
I would tell him I’m not having sex with anyone but him unless it’s paying our bills. He’s focused on the entirely wrong thing - stop thinking with your dick and go get a second job
Sounds like your husband needs a reality check 😬 I use to have sugar daddies too and even did sex work for a few years before kids, and if I needed to do that again to get caught up after trying all the 'normal' steps of getting a job, or getting partner to work but still need the extra cash is totally get a sugar daddy to help out. Things are expensive and 1 employed persons pay can only spread so thin.
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