12 week scan

Had my appointment come through for my 12 week scan. Because of staff shortages at work it’s in a month where my husband can’t take time away from work which will mean he can’t come to the scan. I really don’t feel easy at the thought of going to it alone and being the first time we see this baby I feel it’s something we should be doing together. As it’s our 2nd pregnancy we’ve agreed the only private scan we’d have would be the gender scan (we had a few private scans out of excitement first time) because they’re so expensive. I don’t know what to do as it can’t be done at any other time. Has anyone been to their 12 week scan without their partner?

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Your husband is legally entitled to time off for 2 antenatal appointments so they can't say no!

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Would it be worth paying just for one private scan so you can see baby together for the first time then?

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