VBAC or section

Hey I’m just looking for advice from people who’ve done this before.

I had a planned section with my first because at the growth scan she was 10lb 6 and when I had the section she was 10lb 15. I was healthy and everything went well.

Now this baby at 32 weeks was 4lb 10 which isn’t huge, and I’ll have another scan at 36 weeks. I don’t have gestational diabetes.

I’m really scared either way and not sure which to do? I don’t want my scar to rupture… and I also don’t want the section recovery.

Any advice appreciated!

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She’s trying to escape

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