Advice
Advice
My partner works away most weeks all week.
We have two toddlers and my 3 year old has autism and is hardly sleeping. I am also pregnant.
He works 9-5 away and has every evening to himself goes for dinner with work friends etc.
He’s alway saying I do nothing and I’m useless and lazy. I do everything for my children even spend most nights awake. Take my boys to pre school and sort all his health care appointments.
He’s come in today saying the house is a mess even though it’s just a pile of washing and the other mess is all his work paperwork and clothes he dumps. I always used to sort it all out time and time again but he gets the hump and messes everything up.
He never spends anytime with the children one on one maybe driving the around but never anything in the house alone .
I was starting to clean the kitchen tonight after I made everyone dinner and he was like our LB needs a shower due to having his hair cut and I said why don’t you do it then and he starting kicking off saying I’m lazy he’s been at work all day. It’s the first time I think he’s ever showered them both.
Then he stormed off with them in the car.
I’m so heartbroken, this happens all the time.
I just feel so useless like I’m doing nothing which he also tells everyone.
He’s constantly walking out and blocking me after he’s caused an argument.
I haven’t had a day off in three years and I don’t know what to do
He’s just said I don’t get off my fat lazy arse while, is this normal? I’m pregnant with his third child
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He sounds like a jerk
I think you deserve better and I would consider leaving… sorry you’re in this 🥹
When you become a mother it’s a job for a lifetime, some men who have no principle or moral values would think that it’s just consecutive normal/ordinary days at home “she’s a woman, that’s what she’s suppose to do”. Real men who are emotionally aware of their partner’s needs will act accordingly. Being a women is heavy all by itself. We are wired to carry every emotion, but only so much that we can take…. We are diamonds but still with imperfections.
I’m also writing this with a heavy heart, overwhelmed and lonely
Short proverb ( the cow has its tail but doesn’t know the use of it until fly takes it)
He doesn’t know your true value until maybe one day you leave.
So sorry for the burden❤️🥹🥹
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