4 weeks left till I give birth maybe less than last time I got checked I was 1 cm dilated but as I wait for the days to go by , I had end my marriage and it completely broke me down. My body is rejecting everything except baby boy and I thank god for that. If I’m up I’m throwing up or crying I don’t know what else to do besides sleep myself into a migraine 😭 it’s currently 3 am and I have a migraine I’m nauseous and tired but can’t sleep and can’t stop the tears. This is my first and only pregnancy I will have I’m completely traumatized.
Any advice or words to help me get through this break up while in the weeks of my pregnancy?
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I found out my partner was cheating at 37 weeks pregnant. I was induced at 38 weeks and the babies father left the day after my son was born. So i understand some of what you are going through. It isn't just the relationship you are grieving but the entire life you had imagined. You have every right to feel sad and hurt. But please know that it gets better. My son is now almost 3 months old, and he is the best thing that ever happened to me. He makes every tough day a little better. And without the father involved he is all mine.
It isn't easy, and I did get postnatal depression, anxiety and perinatal OCD. But be open to getting the help that you need when you are feeling low. And i promise it will get better.