Do you get any baby-free time in your day?

Mums, do you get any baby-free time in your day? Time for just you. Just to be.

I feel terrible but I find it difficult to be with my baby all the time. I just feel like I need time away from her sometimes. Apart from my husband I have no one else around to help with the baby.

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Feeling done

I’m really not enjoying motherhood at all like I miss my life without kids. I constantly feel so overwhelmed and overstimulated, my children’s dad really robbed me from a soft & safe experience. I’ve literally been in survival mode since having my first born and I just feel like I can’t breathe. When they cry I want them to stfu, when they touch me I don’t want to be touched like I feel so disconnected with them and I just don’t want to do it. I do it for the sake of it, bc I love them but it’s like I don’t want this life at all I’m so over it. Has anyone felt like this? How can I move past it I’m tired

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How do you accept money?

A childhood friend offered to send me $100 because he knows I’m going through a tough time. I’ve never been offered money before and have never asked anyone to borrow money. I don’t even know how to answer yes. It feels so weird. We only speak through Instagram so I don’t think he still has my number.

Do I reply with my phone number and say “you can send it through Zelle or Apple Pay” — that sounds so crazy to me.

Someone please help!

Birth Control

Has anyone gone back on any form of birth control since having their babies yet? Im so unsure what to do, I never went on any type of birth control after my first as I found my mental health was so bad on the pill, but I don’t want to risk getting pregnant again as we are definitely 2 and done

Feel really worried and scared :(

My husband has been super unreasonable during my postpartum period especially with boundaries around his family. He is now suggesting going to his family’s staycation with my baby who will be 6 weeks old and if I don’t go he is willing to take baby without me. He seems to want to go for a whole day.

Does anyone know if he can do this or if I should speak to the health visitor or something

Friendssss?

Hey everyone just looking for some new genuine friends, message me or comment if you’re keen 🥰
32 || mama of 2 || animal lover || Australian