Feel really worried and scared :(

My husband has been super unreasonable during my postpartum period especially with boundaries around his family. He is now suggesting going to his family’s staycation with my baby who will be 6 weeks old and if I don’t go he is willing to take baby without me. He seems to want to go for a whole day.

Does anyone know if he can do this or if I should speak to the health visitor or something

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What has he done that has made you so scared?

Are his family unsafe people?

Why is he so intent on taking a newborn away from you, to spend an entire day with his family (mostly his mother, right?)

Are you in the UK? Are you breastfeeding?

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Sounds horrible, maybe show him videos of babies with RSV etc and tell him how you are feeling (if you haven't already).
I'm not sure legally if you can stop him from taking your baby but it's worth asking local authorities.
If baby is breastfed then he can't take them.
Definitely talk to your health visitor first because they will know where you should contact about all of this, also so there are records in case you need them in the future, make sure you give specifics of things he does or says.

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Feel really worried and scared :(

My husband has been super unreasonable during my postpartum period especially with boundaries around his family. He is now suggesting going to his family’s staycation with my baby who will be 6 weeks old and if I don’t go he is willing to take baby without me. He seems to want to go for a whole day.

Does anyone know if he can do this or if I should speak to the health visitor or something

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