Am I the asshole for not letting my mil see my child we lived with her when I was pregnant she treated me horribly and that led to delivery early and also having PPD . When I had my daughter she would dick Tate everything I’m doing shed be like you need to be doing this you have to worry about this ect and what I’m gonna feed her like ect . And every time I walked in the door with my daughter they wouldn’t say anything the would just hold their hands out and expect to hold her like that rude to me. And finally my bf had a conversation with her about it and she called me a cunt , bitch,whore ect and she kicked us out in March in the early /late night hours and we had to come to a motel my bf told her to apologize and she has my number and she still hasn’t but I don’t think I would even except an apology at this point and my fil is acting like she didn’t do anything wrong and the everyone else too . So they haven’t seen her since March .shes also over stepped so many boundaries and im tired of it like fr tired of it . When we were living with her she would double play me and my bf she would say one thing to him and one thing to me and pin us against each other . Im just wanna be done at this point at they do is argue and think their right and when we have conversations with them she does that
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Nope. Shes the asshole. If she ends up apologizing and is truly sincere, then I would allow it. Im glad your bf stuck up for you. The family YOU create is now what is in important, not the family you came from. My husband's father has passed unfortunately and his step mother and adopted mother are just not the greatest people. Unfortunately they will never be in our child's lives

Nah, I can’t see any way in which she is not the arsehole here. If you want to limit contact, I think you’re in the right to do so if that is how she is.

Nope you’re definitely not the A-Hole. Gotta set boundaries. I’m doing something similar with my birth mom sadly
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