My baby fathers mom came in town for the week . She stayed with us at my house the last 2 nights she was in town. Last night he went out and we were talking . She said to me “ I hope you don’t be mad at me that I go see this girl and that girl that’s just what he wants “ so im like im my head is she implying that he had her going to see a whole bunch of different girls 🤨…. She also goes to say she hopes he marry me and she don’t know why he be back in forth with this women and that women but we belong together and she can tell he loves me ??? We had a long talk and when I say im soooo lost it’s like she is telling me he is cheating without telling me but asking me to stay ?? Today is his birthday but im kinda giving him a attitude because I want to address some things but I don’t want to ruin his bday nor do I want to throw his mom under the bus ☹️☹️☹️mindful im 10 weeks away from having his first son ( out of 8 kids tho ) oh and she also basically told me the first few nights she was in town she stayed over his recent babymothers house ( because my grand babies are there was her reason ) but he lied and told me she was staying with his sister… mindful I just got into a physical fight with the babymother 2 weeks ago ( YES SHE CAME TO MY HOUSE TO FIGHT BECAUSE SHE GOT WIND THAT IM PREGNANT ) .
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Okay wow there’s a lot going on. I would say don’t throw his mom under the bus. But if you think she is telling you something then believe your instincts. Know your partner if they would lie of such thing if they would try to gather information. Then take action. Try to have a good day and be at peace with yourself. And try to make a decision with a clear head because you also need to see what you will do. Do you support yourself financially etc, good luck!

What she is saying is making sense, he supposedly went out to eat with his home boys to kick off his birthday last night the restaurant he told me he went to closed at 10 but he didn’t get home til after 1….

Follow your instincts. Take care of yourself