Mother and baby classes / Mother and baby friends

I have a 3 month old little girl and I’m looking for mum and baby friends..

Is there any baby classes or anyone with a baby around this age who’s looking to meet up?

I’m based in Wickford but I drive :) x

TIA X

in our community

Please advice

Since when did cheating become so normal that everyone expects the person who got hurt to just accept it?

My family isn’t even talking to me. My dad shouted at me and said, “It’s not a big deal. Why are you reacting like this?” His family and friends keep telling me, “Forgive him and move on for the baby’s sake.”

What about me?

Am I supposed to switch off my feelings? Am I a robot? Does my pain not matter to anyone?

Everyone keeps saying, “Forgive him.” Why? For what? He hasn’t admitted what he did, he isn’t sorry, and he hasn’t even apologized. He’s acting like he hasn’t done anything wrong, yet somehow I’m the one being expected to move on.

What am I supposed to do now? Pretend it never happened? Live like everything is normal? Smile while carrying all this hurt by myself just to make everyone else comfortable?

Why is all the pressure on me? Why isn’t anyone asking him to take responsibility? Why am I the one expected to sacrifice my peace, my self-respect, and my feelings?

Yes, there’s a baby, and I love my baby more than anything. But why does caring for my child have to mean pretending my heartbreak doesn’t exist?

I’m exhausted. Not just because of what happened, but because everyone seems more interested in protecting the person who caused the pain than the person who’s living with it.

Pre school nursery.

My daughter is 15 months old and she is due to start nursery for two mornings a week soon, however I am extremely apprehensive about it! I hate the thought of her getting poorly and I hate the thought of essentially strangers looking after her. Does anybody think it’s actually really important that she goes? We don’t need her to go from a child care point of view and developmentally she isn’t behind at all so I’m contemplating not sending her but I was hoping for some advice and some thoughts! TIA x

I've had the worst experience in my life with a ride share driver Should I report her ?

She picked me up and she was non stop itching and twitching. She was asking me questions about my work and Everytime I answered she turn her whole head around and look at me, we were on the highway. She missed the exit and to take me through a expressway and do a UTurn. She then told she has a company worth 400 MILLION DOLLARS! I changed my destination to a gas station. Hoping she won't remember where I live since she read my address back to me when the ride started. Should I report her ?

Stay at home mama

Hey! I recently became a stay at home mom. My husband encouraged it and I thought while she is young this would be prime time to do it.

Here’s things I’m struggling with and need advice or suggestions on how to over come them

- finding time for myself
- not making my own money (I’ve never had to depend on anyone for money)
- cleaning routine (we used to have a cleaning lady once a month) I feel I could do this but it’s hard with a crawler on my hands —or am I making excuses
- I’m still pumping 4 times a day (I’m ok with this I just feel I am still scheduling my day around pumps)
- I recently told my husband I would like to go to a workout class on Tuesdays and told him I wouldn’t go every Tuesday and he said have fun and suggested I’d be taking baby to (this was for me to have me time) I told him I wouldn’t be taking baby

Thoughts suggestions
Please be nice as I’m newly negativing this

Would you let your child miss the last half day of school ( uk
Mums).

He’s in year one. I am stuck as there’s no breakfast club or after school clubs as it’s the last day

Have you done this before

Toddler doesn’t want anything to do with me 🤣

Anyone else’s toddler at that stage where they don’t want anything to do with them and it’s all about daddy 🥲 I mean when it’s dad day off I’m all for it but when he’s at work it makes it so much harder, I try to play with him and he pushes me away and is always saying “no” ☹️ I feel like dad is the comfort parent and the fun parent atm and I don’t know what to do