I never thought I will feel like this,i was always vulnerable,not very popular,I made some bad decisions and became single mum,no help,dad is so awful,he makes my life difficult,not helping with anything,family is low effort,I never see me or my daughter unless I go there. I m so tired if being alone,I feel ashamed because I have a terrible life,I work but my money never attaches far enough,I don't have any friends,I get so low and angry,I feel like the whole universe is telling me I m not worth anything..I almost distance myslef from people becasue I think they don't like me anyway,I m a foreigner in UK and I feel like I don't belong anywhere,they don't make any effort,they are very disrespectful and I feel like I will never achieve my dreams becasue I feel bitten down by everyone.
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You’re carrying so much, and it makes complete sense that you feel the way you do. Life sounds incredibly heavy right now, and I’m really sorry you’re going through all of this.
I just want to gently say, feeling unworthy doesn’t mean you are. Sometimes when life keeps hitting from every direction, it’s easy to believe the worst about yourself. But you deserve support and kindness, especially from yourself. We all have moments or decisions we wish had gone differently, but those things don’t define your value. Forget the world ( it’s shitty anyway) Love yourself.
Show yourself kindness and handle yourself with care; even in small ways. A mindset shift. Daily affirmations, softer thoughts, and pouring back into yourself can slowly help you rebuild. I have days where I feel low too, wishing things were different, and I’ve had to learn to speak to myself with more compassion. You deserve that same gentleness.

🙏🏽 try to change your mindset. I know it's easy for me to say this to you, but you have to do it. You can't live life like this. You are a mother. You have a child to live for you cannot continue living life like this.
Try to find ways to make yourself happy and whatever negativity you have in your life try to remove it. Try your best to remove it. Only surround yourself with good positive people because the more negative you have in your life will only bring you down.