Bd silent treatment

I told my baby dad that I’ve been struggling and I’m overwhelmed and I need more support and he said that me being overwhelmed, overwhelmed him and that I’m too mean and he’s been ignoring me for over a week now. He was really shitty to me during my pregnancy and started doing better and now he’s back to his BS.

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ugh i’m sorry, In the same boat girly. so hard dealing with these incompetent bd’s 😭

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Do you have any support elsewhere?
Doesn’t sound like a man to me.

He’s just going to hurt your heart more! Try leaning on someone else so you can have a moment to breathe.
And focus on you and your little one life!

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He just doesn't Know what to do or how to help. Thats why its overwhelming him.

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I’ve dealt with this same thing. Just remember how they treat us at our most vulnerable is how they really feel. Regardless of how well they can “act” any other time. You def deserve better 🙌🏽🫶🏽

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I regret relying on my baby daddy for anything, I struggled so much during my pregnancy and was so upset during most of it. I barely took any pics, I hid my belly and used to cry a lot. For him to cheat on me pp and leave anyways lol. Life is better when you rely on yourself for your own happiness, find friends, do things yourself, forget him.

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I went through something like this to where I go to my moms and stay there for a couple days until me and my bf are in good terms while pregnant. It doesnt get better after newborn but this time I don’t go to my moms. I just do the same and ignore him. Men are very dramatic and immature when it comes to pregnant and baby’s. They will never understand .

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