How do you get past the mental exhaustion and fight the urge to give up while feeling unsupported?

Rarely do I open up to my bf because he’s not very supportive or at least he doesn’t know how to be. I feel like I’ve hit rock bottom, I got laid off during my mat leave, I’ve been living off unemployment which isn’t much, 75% of my bills are either past due or are being paid but my mom and bf and I have to pay them both back. I feel chronically stuck. I’ve been procrastinating on getting things done because they just seem so hard. The only thing I’ve been doing 100% is being a mother to my 5 and 1 year olds. Cooking, cleaning, teaching, etc. I’m so tired. I’m so drained. I don’t feel like me anymore. Therapy isn’t helping. Idk what to do …. And my bf is no help as a father. He doesn’t come home and take over, he doesn’t ask me if I want alone time, he doesn’t always respect my boundaries. I wanna cry but my nervous system is in overdrive so my body is protecting itself from any emotional distress and I literally can’t physically cry. Pls tell me it gets better. And am I crazy for feeling unsupported based on what my bf said ? Idk I don’t have the energy to care anymore. Send help

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Marriage problems

Does anyone else feel like they are married just not to not make their child come from a broken home ?
My Husband and I used to be amazing and have never had any issues between our selves at all other than ones caused by his family.
They are just the most toxic and entitled. They are chipping away so hard at my marriage to the point where I am
Holding for our baby.
I want to leave behind anything to do with this family and extended family of his and him. But we have a baby together.
Wtf do I do ?? I can’t take this anymore.
I have decided to cut all ties with every single family member of his and he’s fine with that but it’s just being here 100 miles from my own family and friends.
Just completely isolated

Is it normal for your husband/partner/other half to not know baby's routine because they aren't the primary carer?

Like when I go out he always asks me what time dinner should and/or bedtime should be. I get he is working most of the time but he does do dinner and bedtime routine three days a week and has done since our baby was born so I feel like he should know by now.

Popcorn

At what age is it no longer a choking hazard and safe to give?

Protein yogurt

Okay so I accidentally bought my 9 month old a protein yoghurt (wasn't advertised as a protein yogurt) can he still eat it?
He can't have cows milk, hence the alpro.

SAHM of 7 cannot compete with husbands co worker

Sahm of 7 who homeschools and has a husband who is a manager and works 50 hours a week. Thought I was doing pretty good until my husband got drunk and told me that he could be with top models that do way more (cleaning) for $20 then I do all day. He’s talking about his co workers who are young and have less children and who obviously work. I told him that I was trying and getting better at cleaning but not having a break was taking a toll on me. He continued to tell me how he was to ignore this honest hard working women while I who doesn’t deserve his loyalty can’t clean as well. I cried. I cannot compete. I’ve had hard pregnancies and this damn cooper iud is hard to deal with symptomatically. What should I do? Is this cheating? He’s with these women more than me.

Kissing babies

Im curious on the different opinions on who is aloud to kiss the baby. I dont come from a close family (physically we all live far apart) so it was never an issue for me but ive see lots of videos of people say in laws or grandparents would not respect the boundaries they were setting. And kissing the baby came up alot. So what do you think?