Second child but no sex!

So i have a 10 month old will be 11 months in 6 days. In just 7 months my boyfriend said we can try for a second one. But im like im 31 im not getting any younger and I know it's harder to get pregnant the higher in age you are. Well here is the issue. We dont have sex. So how does he expect to get pregnant when we dont have sex and he cant just espect to have sex maybe 3 times a month and think that will be enough. Im just so overwhelmed and upset. Trust me I hate having a sexless relationship even if we aren't trying to get pregnant

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First determine if you’re happy in this relationship and if this a forever thing. Silver lining I’m 35 with my second and trust me it wasn’t hard lol although I know every woman is different. Feel free to reach out if you want too

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