Sleeping advice!

My baby sleeps overnight in her next to me in a Purflo. Shes slept in it since 3 weeks and shes now 7 weeks. I know some people dont agree with the additional items in the cot, but it helps her feel more secure in her sleep. Recently shes been wiggling down to the bottom and resting her legs on the foot of the bumper so shes in a slight frog position on her back. Shes not rolling in her sleep, shes very still in this position. This seems to massively help her with her wind and shes sleeping longer at night because of it. I've tried to research online to see if this is an unsafe position to sleep in, but all I can find is not to use any blankets or wedges because they could move around in the cot and they could end up covering their face. This wouldn't happen in this case because the Purflo won't move in the night. What's everyone's thoughts? I don't love that she sleeps like this but shes a million times more comfortable and sleeping longer because of it.

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If she’s able to wriggle that far down then I personally wouldn’t use it at all.

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It's not that people "don't agree" with extra items in the cot, it's that extra items in the cot increase the risk of suffocation and SIDs. The fact she's moving around in it shows she could end up in a more concerning situation. Babies are supposed to wake through the night, it helps prevent SIDs and them being stuck in different positions. I'd recommend having a look at the lullaby trust for safe sleep info. I say all this understanding that often we think baby sleeping is best for them as well as us, but especially with a baby so young you are taking a big risk leaving her to sleep overnight aka unsupervised in something like this and I would urge you to remove it.

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