UC and savings
I have claimed UC, I have a shares ISA my dad set up, im paying a chunk of my mortgage off in the a few months but the UC will help with my childcare costs. I cant lay the mortgage right now because im locked into it until Nov. Will UC find out automatically, I have been told they its highly unlikely and im not talking 100s of thousands either.....but i cant go back to work without childcare support, feel like im in a sticky point, but ive worked since I was 15 always paid into the system, got crap mat pay both times and had to go to work early so I almost think stuff it I dont really care :/
Shocked !!
Last night, after putting my toddler to bed, I developed severe abdominal pain that was bad enough that I had to lie down. I am also 15 weeks pregnant.
Instead of being concerned about how I was feeling, my partner became angry because we could no longer have sex. The argument escalated to the point where he said he wanted to end the relationship because he wasn't getting sex. He told me he'd made the effort to smell nice and that I could have at least offered oral sex or "something."
I was in such significant pain that I was considering calling NHS 111, yet he showed no concern for my wellbeing. His focus was entirely on the fact that he wasn't getting sex, rather than on the fact that I was pregnant and in pain.
I'm completely at a loss and genuinely shocked by what happened.
