So when do we start potty training?

I see some people start when they are under 12m. Thats great but I use a daycare service because I work. So for those of us who aren't 💯 with the kid , when seems to be realistic? We are 17m old.

in our community

Preschooler asks if Disney princess (Elsa, Ariel,ect) are real. Are you ruining the fun and saying no? Or lying?

My 4 year old has been very into asking if things are real. We talk about how magic isn’t real and now she’s asking if Elsa is real. She loves Elsa and we have seen her at princess party things.

I ultimately asked her what she thought and she pieced together that since Elsa has magic, she isn’t real. I’m a little worried that I have taken the fun out of princesses. 😅

Not everyone will find this funny....

So my husband reminded me of this song. And I find it to be hilarious. If anyone knows of the band lonely island its a parody of one of their songs but a girls version. If you dont like it im sorry.

https://youtu.be/DJsQcnB6GC0?is=W5NF_T0MqbwCmRVJ

Post cheating

Early in to our relationship I found that my partner was talking to some girl on snapchat (only fans type) and had sent a picture of his dick to them. Anyway I confronted him, went fucking mental & he apologised. We moved on & things have been great. We got engaged, married & had 2 kids.

However, 6 years later it's popped into my head like an intrusive thought & I'm re-pissed off lol. I don't want to bring it up because he hasn't done anything since & I genuinely believe he won't. I checked his phone the other day & there was absolutely nothing on there at all & I feel guilty for even doubting him when it was a mistake 6 years ago!!

Do I tell him that its popped into my head or just leave it? How do I stop the thought?

Please no "leave him sis" or judgement

Pretty sure partner has a personality disorder

One day hes all for me, agrees with me in parenting, is helpful around the house, affectionate.
The next day its like he tries to disagree with me on everything, hes loud and annoying

Partner Rant

Why do I feel so angry? He is a great dad but crap partner.
In my eyes he puts himself first and his needs, gym everyday 630am then goes straight to work. (which in the 2 years we have been together he has NEVER been to the gym). Today has gone for an all day tattoo session he works mon and fri 9-5 so weekends are what I class as family time. He won’t even offer to get up with the baby to give me a a lay in, I’ve mentioned it but every time I do it becomes an argument and we go back normal. He also has a child from previous relationship so we have him every other weekend and he is pre teen so doesn’t want to do anything so we get dictated by him on what we do on his weekends which my partner just allows. Along with the attitude and disagreements that I have to just grin and bear.

I feel like I have to beg for him to spend time with his baby and me. When he is home he is on his phone or moaning he tired ALL THE TIME.

I love him and I really want to make it work but at the same time I feel like I am being taken for granted in my own home.

Advice please 🤍🙏🏻

October 2023 Babies - Starting School

Hey mamas,

Hope you're all doing okay & haven't yet passed out with the British heat we've been getting recently 😬😭😂

My daughter will be 3 this coming October (🥹where😭has😭the😭time😭 gone?!😭)

I'm wondering, if mamas with kids around the same age, have you started looking at/applying to schools yet?

What are the first steps that I need to take?

The idea of it all is very overwhelming & I don't know where to start 😬😟🫪