Aibu getting annoyed at boyfriend??

So my boyfriend was with his ex wife 23 years and the other day he was looking through Facebook and seen a meme saying it was world bitch day or something like that he said convenient that’s on her birthday. And I was annoyed because I said how would you remember her birthday, as a few days ago he said he’s terrible at remembering birthdays and found it hard even remembering his son’s birthday. So why remember hers? Then I started over thinking

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He was with her almost 25 years and im pretty sure most of us women make a big deal about our birthdays😩

Yeah, 23 years is a long time, it would be stranger if he didn’t remember it. I’m also bad with remembering dates, but I will always remember my ex-best friend’s birthday because she made such a big deal about it, and her birthdays often came with drama. And we were friends for less than a decade. I think you’re assigning the wrong meaning to his remembering it. He’s with you now and there’s a reason for that :)

I'm going to be honest. You are being ridiculous, he was with her 23 YEARS my dude, if he DIDN'T remember her birthday I would take him for a brain scan for Alzheimer's.

23 years is a long long time and it’s not like he was praising her…

You have to think of the time frame. Men say they are awful. But if he had a bad experience with his ex that will make him remember the little things like that.

Most men r bad with dates but will remember them if bad experience or something reminds them of that date or he couldn't posted what he seen on her birthday while she was an ex an it popped up as memory
My husband of 10yr don't remember my birthday or his daughters an my dad don't know my birthday or my brother he always ask

He was saying something derogatory, maybe it’s an easy date to remember. Celebrated more bdays celebrated w her then your son unless he’s 23

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