Am I trippin … like

I’ve never been so upset and sad in my life! I’m 3 months pregnant and he just walked out on me and left without a word all because of a domestic incident he got in the mail back the month of march. Mind you, I’m not gonna let anybody do me any kind of way and just sit back and take it .., you will be held accountable.. moral of story he has a warrant of course and also for a dwi and his chances of getting a new job are low. He definitely knew about his warrants and now is trying to blame me .
I told him we can just break up I’m not gonna keep repeating these cycles he said ok. I was excited to have my son just found out the gender today and now it’s like… do I even keep the kid … ? I don’t want to be depressed . Honestly can’t even believe someone who did me wrong could walk out on me !

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I'm so lost

My husband had been having an affair for almost a year. I uncovered this when I was 3 months pregnant.

My baby is 11 months now, and we have been trying to rebuild. Someday, I think we are making progress. He has been spending family time with us and taking leave from work to be with us more.

However, today, he was upset about how I speak of his family. I got emotional telling him that I can never respect his family after they barely checked in on me whilst I was pregnant because it was more comfortable for them to brush his affair under a rug and not face it.

He became so cold and horrible. He told me I always deflect whenever he talks about his feelings. He said him being upset has become about why I'm now upset. I don't disagree with this.

However, what upset me was how he was acting towards me. He swore at me, told me to stay in my room, and told me I'd never change. He then proceeded to send me a long message about how I take no accountability, and he can't be upset because he's done worse . He swore at me while holding our baby. He then shouted at me while we were out. I was crying, and he told me to sort my face out before I got out the car while I was in tears.

We never ever argue in front of our baby, so today has been difficult for me seeing how he was being in front of baby. He seemed to have just lost it. It's not a regular occurrence, but I'm just so lost. I can't leave him because I stupidly love him.

Has anyone been through something similar or knows anyone who has? Any advice?

Looking for mommy friends 😊🤞

Hey everyone! 💕 I wanted to introduce myself. I’m 21 years old, I have a 5-month-old baby, and I’m new to North Carolina!

I’m looking to make some mommy friends to chat with, FaceTime, go on park playdates, or just get out of the house together. I’d love to have people to share advice with, have meaningful conversations, or even just vent and gossip a little—we all need someone to talk to sometimes! 😊

If you’re looking for a new mom friend too, feel free to message me. I’d love to get to know you! 💗

I think I am genuinely over this app

It’s just impossible to make any friends in my 40s. Doesn’t seem like anyone wants to actually talk . I can’t keep up the conversation for everyone !! Is anyone else struggling 😫

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Does anyone else feel uncomfortable (mentally) pleasuring themselves whilst pregnant?

Do you actually have friends

I'm 33 and realised I don't have friends!

Like friends I can confide in, pick up the phone and call, laugh with about the silly things. That I would want to be a bridesmaid or godparents to my kids.

Any "friend" I did have, now all feel like acquaintances. Friends from a stage of life - be it school or work.

Whats crazy is I actually enjoy my peace like I don't feel there is a lack. But I think that because previous friendships literally broke my heart. Lets not go down memory lane on the things they did haha.

But seriously the older I get, the less friends I have. My husband is my only friend friend haha. My daughter is my lil bestie and my cat is my bugaboo when it wants food. 😅🤣

Is is a London thing? Like I notice in other countries they seem to focus on friendships more, socialising etc.

Do you have friends?

First Time Mom

This is embarrassing but it’s my reality right now. I’m currently 10 weeks pregnant and I don’t have any form of insurance. We can’t afford anything over $150 a month. IF that. I don’t qualify for Medicaid so I’m literally lost and so scared. What did I get myself into 😭