Loud sleeping baby

My baby is 8 weeks old and is so loud and noisy at night. I’m getting about 3-4 hours a night because my body wakes me up as soon as it hears him upset. Is there anything anyone recommends or any ear plugs I could use to take the edge off of it?

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Questions

I'm a first time mom and I'm just wondering at what age did you let your baby cry themselves to sleep my mom says that I can but I'm not sure I hate hearing him cry

Decided not to cut tongue tie - have I made the right call?

My baby is nearly 6 weeks old and we had an appointment for his tongue tie at 4 weeks, we decided not to cut it.
Context-
He could not breastfeed at all, and lost a lot of weight in the first 3 days however we switched to bottles and he now gains weight brilliantly, some milk comes out the sides of his mouth but it’s never an insane amount and he drinks his bottle without any fuss.
He has a posterior tongue tie which the clinician said is very far back in his mouth. He scored 6/10 and 7/14 on the assessment.
They said to us that healing on a tongue tie this far back would be more difficult and it’s at a higher chance of bleeding after the division which obviously made us nervous. They said it was up to us, and we decided because he is gaining weight on his bottles that we wouldn’t cut it. But now I’m questioning my decision.
Will his posterior tongue tie cause troubles later on? I’ve been told it can affect weaning, speech. He is quite a fussy baby sometimes and now I’m like oh is this because of the tongue tie?
Has anyone not cut their babies tongue tie and they’ve been ok?
Subsequently has anyone had their babies tongue tie cut after the 6 week mark because of other issues they’ve run into?
Advice appreciated x

Night rage

My toddler is 4 and has been awake since 2am (now 5) I just got so frustrated with them for not sleeping I shouted and hit the bed with my hand which immediately made them start crying the guilt I felt was immense at my outburst. So extra comforting apologised explained I'm tried and sorry and love them so much and listed all the things I love their family love etc and gave cuddles and head strokes.
I'm a single mum and struggling with no help or not as much as I actually need and if I'm honest I'd be someone who NEEDED night help but it never came. I just feel so guilty for what I just did. I am a general gentle parent but I will have outburst of just pure rage and I feel so awful like I'm going to damage my child.

Curious

Did anyone boobs go down or stay the same size after stopping exclusively pumping ?

Currently heartbroken

How are you healing from heartbreak? It's been 8 months since my husband walked out on me and my 2 little children. He said I was too controlling he didn't feel like himself with me. He basically said he missed his single life. I told him I do too! But we are parents now, there are supposed to be major changes. He wasn't with that and has barely contacted us. I'll spare you the details but it was like I was raising a man child who was neglecting my kids and my feelings. He just threw us away like trash it feels and I'm left to put everything together. On top of that, I'm super alone with no friends and family anywhere close.

I fight tears everyday just to do basic things. It's so hard. Has anyone been this heartbroken? If so, how are you doing and how are you getting through the pain?

Well wishes to you all.

4 month sleep regression

Please tell me it gets better! I’m so so tired , I try and start putting her in her next to me and she wants to come into bed with me so end up co sleeping she wakes every 2 hours atleast! I give her a bottle rock her to sleep she’s fine but wakes constantly and is then wide awake. Feel like I’m failing. She’s now 5 months please give me tips ! She has 7oz so can’t be hungry surely 😢