Work from home?

Hey, is there any mums that have a good job that they can do from home and around their kids and daily life? I’ve got a toddler who’s autistic and I’m expecting baby number two, I need something I can do to earn some extra money to keep us afloat. Also I live in UK just incase some companies don’t hire globally ❤️

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My baby daddy wants to get back together..

For some background, my baby’s sperm donor is 34 with 5 other kids (3 baby mommas). I’m 22 and the 4th baby momma and my son is his 6th kid. He’s never been a present father in his other kids lives. He was a very toxic and controlling person in the relationship. He started telling me who I could and couldn’t talk to early into the relationship. When he got angry lots of harsh things would be said and if he was mad enough objects would be thrown or hit. I had finally built up the courage to leave before I found out I was pregnant and got back together to try and work it out for the baby. But about 4 months into the pregnancy nothing had changed and it got worse, he even told me he didn’t want his son around a woman who wanted all that freedom… I got away again by turning him into the sheriffs department, as he had an active warrant for his arrest for not paying child support for this other kids. He’s been writing me from jail wanting to fix things and prove he can be a good father. But I just don’t believe it, in 16 years he was never a father to any of his other kids. What makes mine different. Am I in the wrong for not even wanting him in my son’s life? I personally believe inconsistency and his behavior/attitude towards me is worse than him just not being an active part of our lives.

Sex question

I’m 36 weeks pregnant and whenever I orgasm my head severely hurts it just recently started I don’t know if that’s something normal I never used to experience it before is it something to be concerned about?

Contraceptive patch

Anyone using the patch? I've just started using it and I put it on my upper arm but realised it's not a good spot for it. Where have you put yours? I don't know what spot on the body is the best for it

Group chats

Don’t create or join a GC if you’re going to be a complete bitch. So many groups I’ve joined have been full of mean girl energy and it’s pathetic. Have your experienced this?

Dinner

Smoked greens with Turkey neck , yams , corn bread and lollipop chicken y’all I’m so greatful I was able to eat amen 🙏🏽

Kids birthday presents

I need some help. My BD doesn't see why I insist on our 4 year attending a birthday party of her friend with a present. I refused to let her show up to a party without a present it just feels wrong. Am I wrong? I offered to pay him back for it because I don't get paid until the first and he's being all huffy about it. I just can't bring myself to show up without something for her friend.